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Shaming Men Doesn’t Build Healthy Sexuality

Male sexuality is intensely under attack, in the increasingly vitriolic social dialogue related to pornography. Though women watch and make pornography, most of the current debates focus on aspects of masculine sexual behaviors. These behaviors include masturbation, use of pornography, prostitutes or sexual entertainment like strip clubs. Promiscuity, sex without commitment, and use of sex to manage stress …

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Anal Sex Misconceptions

General Statistics ~ Our society is more comfortable talking about murder and rape than anal sex. ~ 47% of women have had anal sex. ~ Women who had anal sex first, then had vaginal sex, were able to orgasm 94% of the time. ~ Most anal sex happens in the part of the butt called …

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The 3 Keys to Better Anal Sex

Basic Anal Sex Guidelines The three keywords for comfortable anal penetration are lubrication, communication, and relaxation. LUBRICATION:  Always use a lubricant prior to and during anal sex. Spit is never a substitute for lubrication. Unlike the vagina, the small amount of mucus a rectum produces is completely insufficient for anal intercourse. Therefore anal penetration should …

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Anal Play Ideas

Cover the bases: 1. Wash up, and relax. Having a nice warm bath or hot shower may help alleviate anxiety about cleanliness. If you’re concerned about having a bowel movement during play, make sure you go to the bathroom before you begin. 2. Trim your nails. The lining of the anus is very sensitive and …

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Tips for Pain-Free Anal Play

1. Find a Great Lube: Thick and viscous lubricants work best and tend to stick to the condom. Silicone lubes are great because they don’t get sticky and are super slippery. A combination of lubricants is fine. Experiment and find what works best for you. 2. Anal Grooming: Hairs around the anal area are common …

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Best Anal Sex Positions

The position is CRUCIAL when you are having anal sex. Often times, people associate anal sex with doggy style or rear entry. While this position can be fun and exciting for more experienced butt lovers……. this position can be difficult for beginners. Most people “think” the best position is for the person receiving it in …

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Anal Toy Basics

Basic information about anal toys & anal penetration… For a man, anal penetration can stimulate his highly sensitive prostate gland which is often thought to be the G-Spot (or P-spot) for him. For a woman, anal sex can result in more powerful “internal” orgasms. The area between the end of the vagina and the anus …

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Female Ejaculation Facts

Definition of Female Ejaculation Female ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra and theorized to originate from the bladder and the Paraurethral/Skenes glands (located under the g-spot) during sexual arousal. It is usually done during an orgasm, but not always. There Are Two Types of Female Sexual Response Fluids from the …

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