Anal Play Ideas

Cover the bases:
1. Wash up, and relax.
Having a nice warm bath or hot shower may help alleviate anxiety about cleanliness.
If you’re concerned about having a bowel movement during play, make sure you go to
the bathroom before you begin.
2. Trim your nails.
The lining of the anus is very sensitive and can be torn easily. Consider using latex
gloves. They are a great way to deal with hangnails and small cuts on your hands,
plus if you have any concerns about cleanliness they provide a good barrier between
you and all your bodily fluids.
3. Get turned on.
Get yourself in the mood. Some people like to have an orgasm before heading for the
the back door to ensure their whole body is relaxed and blood is really pumping through
the genitals, which can make the anus more sensitive.
4. Find a comfortable position.
Find a position you are most comfortable in where there is easy access to the bum.
5. Start on the outside, massage the anus and perineum.
You never want to rush the penetration part of anal play. Start with an external
massage. Massage the anus using a rhythmic, circular motion. You can gently push
on the anus as if you’re ringing a doorbell, without forcing your finger inside. This will
help relax the anal sphincter.
6. Go on in.
When you are ready to insert a finger in the anus, it is best to start with the pad of
your finger first (not the tip). Once inside, rest a moment while your partner gets used
to the sensation of having something in the anus.
7. If massaging the man anally, Find his prostate.
You should be able to feel his prostate about two inches in and toward his belly. It is
often a walnut-shaped bump. Once you’ve found the prostate you can experiment
with what feels good to him.
8. Experiment with different kinds of touch.
You’ll find it much easier and more comfortable to use a lubricant with your fingers or
toys. Some like the feeling of consistent pressure, others will get off on vibration, or an
on-off kind of pressure.
9. Try playing with toys.
Anal sex toys can be a great way to explore. Toys that have a slight curve are often
designed for a man’s prostate stimulation. Some toys will vibrate, which is a
completely different kind of sensation that some like and others don’t. If you’re going
to try a vibrator, be sure to get one with variable speed, so you can start slow if you
want to.
10. Try butt plugs 
Butt plugs are anal toys designed to be inserted in the anus and stay in place. Some
will put in a butt plug and then have other kinds of sex play (either masturbation or
play with partners). Many say that having a butt plug in really changes the way that
their orgasms feel.
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